Chaos

Chaos... Sometimes I wonder the kind of people we are??(Nigerians).The level of hypocrisy, tribal differences, and double standards we live amidst today. All these good will statements made by politicians and their associates on media; is any of these going to cause the slightest bit of change in Nigerian polity or bring peace? For the unrest in the Niger delta, Jos, and the Muslims and Christians disagreements??Hmmm... I know that these seminars and political strategy deployed cannot sanitise any of these......In a summary, this is what I want to say: dont pretend you care about this great nation when you dont, dont make ambiguous press statements you cannot achieve (your 500 points agenda and different visions that will never be achieved.try to be a man of your word because even if the present does not hold it against you, history will surely write it and make references.One of the most dissatisfying attitudes is not just the double standards of the politicians but mostly the attitudes of the people, the citizens (if we need change we should know that it starts from us in every area of our daily activities.)Why all the waste of time criticizing politicians(This allocation comes into our state or local government, but nothing to show for it.Z has several houses and lots more yet he has not built anything for this state or local government or even this country. That person has j numbers of security, yet there is insecurity in our state. That person was calling this political party member a traitor yesterday, now he’s calling him a martyr...Yes agreed it’s all wrong, are you doing anything about it besides talking? Have you filed a suite against anything or anyone you thought is wrong? Ever thought of initiating a real movement with real issues? For that matter will you even remember these 6 months from now? How long will you keep talking and forgetting about things? If you want something you Nigerian, you better learn to fight for it. It requires some real work, real sweat and real sacrifices. And if you can’t take the heat get out of the kitchen. It’s sad that News channels are not courageous enough to disseminate true situation reports, politicians getting overfed with the national cake as they call it, but still wanting more and some citizens still praise sing them. This great country blessed with vast natural resources has not been able to elevate the standard of living because of our leaders and untruthful and unpatriotic citizens. You call it resilient spirit? I think it’s more to do with not having the ball to do anything. Admit your impotency Nigeria.

Lifes Complexities

Lifes complexities! Its 8:48pm on a saturday.
hmmmm.....Sitting, wondering and wishing if I can really see through peoples hearts their thoughts and intentions??????Of course when we compare with their reactions,words and responses, you will know we humans give misleading interpretations.
Sometimes when words are said why are they miss-interpreted?Why do people say things they do not mean?Why do people not take things as they are communicated????Why are friends not completely real? why do men feel threatened by their Ego? Why do people demand more than they give?? Why are humans selfish?? Why can we not ignore all these odds especially when we know it?? Why do we get touchy about all these?? In all these I know that i have no right to HATE nor DISLIKE people for their odds,because i have mine too and most importantly if God judges me based on my odds i will not be a living being.
Thanks father for your mercy love and faithfulness. Life’s complexities, Trust issues, Achievements, Dreams, Aspirations,Salvation.... hmmm....Trying to find a balance and i know its achievable.
May God help us in finding balance to life’s experiences?

Success.

Success to me is being able to do things that I wouldn’t have believed possible at one time in my life, challenging myself to achieve my professional and personal accomplishments and also gaining confidence to try things that I wouldn’t have thought possible.
I see success sometimes as going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm. Successful and unsuccessful people do not vary greatly in their abilities, but in their desire to reach their potential.
According to the cliché, “success is a journey and not a destination” in many cases I agree. Success is equally wrapped up in how you see yourself and how you are able to enjoy your life.
We all have different needs, aspirations and talents thus making the meaning of success different in each one of us. If you are like most people you are reading this post because you want to discover the secrets of success. I will want to state categorically that as with everything in life, we get out of what we put in. It will be no surprise to you that DETERMINATION+HARDWORK=SUCCESS.
However, there are some ingredients of life that help us achieve success.
PEACE OF MIND: No one can truly consider themselves happy if they lack this ingredient. Everyone seeks peace of mind but in different channels.
HEALTH AND ENERGY: Success without good health and energy to enjoy life isn’t success at all. It can be likened to a car with no fuel in the tank.
LOVING RELATIONSHIPS: No matter how much financial success some one enjoys, again it’s a hollow feeling if you have no one to share it with. This can be anybody.
FINANCIAL FREEDOM: This is freedom from thinking about money at all. How ever it’s not necessarily being “RICH” but having enough money to pay your bills, feed your family, and take care of basic necessities.
PERSONAL FULFFILLMENT: This can be seen as self actualization or being all you can be. In this path, what you do and how you are is of utmost importance.
WORTHY GOALS: Most people have financial freedom as their top goal, but once you have that big pile of cash, then what? For most rich people, it’s the chase they enjoy especially entrepreneurs. Its human nature to constantly chase things. This can be reflected in their passion for excellence.
NOTE: Success can be aborted if you allow you environment abhor U.

expressions.....

JUST IF U LET ME
> I will lift u up when ure falling....
> I will occupy u to avoid distraction..
> I will be your wife,a virtuos one..
> I will be your helper,a saintly one..
> I will be ur princess if u make me one..
> I will make u proud of urself,only if u listen to
> me..
> I will be your partner,if u love me
> accordingly..
> I will be ur bestfreind,if u share ur tots wit
> me..
> I will be ur bridge,when u tink theres no way
> out..
> I will make u proud of me,only if u support
> me....
>
>
> BUT I DONT NEED
> I dont need a man calling me
> names............................
> I dont need a man telling me i am FOOLISH..,
> I dont need a man telling me i am STUPID....,
> I dont need a man telling me i am SENSELESS...,
> I dont need a man that will ignore my person...
> i dont need a man that will ignore my desire
> I dont need a man that will not make me his spinal
> chord..
> I dont need a man that will find me irritating
> sometimes..
> I dont need a man that makes me cry
> I dont need a man that has ever felt HATE 4 me,or says
> he HATES me...???
>
>
> IF U WANT A HAPPY AND SUCCESFUL HOME?????
> Make ur woman ur baby..
> Give her generously,coz when u do,it multiplies a
> thousand fold....
> Love her unconditionally...
> Teach her what u want,with love and not
> insults....
> Treat her like that minute is the last u will share
> wit her....
> Make her TRUST u.
> Dont be unkind to her..
>
> Be A Real MAN.....
> If ur woman doesnt act like you want,it means uve failed
> completely as a MAN
> Real Women Only Need Love To Be Sane.
>
>
> AND I WILL NEVER
> Stop LOVING U.

Confused.

I woke up feeling very cold,sad,apprehensive,sober,elated,strong,calm,willing to make change and hoping i get firm in these decions.yeah i feel some what confused.
I have been praying to God to show me the reason for my existence,because if you talk about passion and ideas i have a lot.i am very intelligent and can adapt anywhere and in any field with little or no supervision after equiping my skills minimaly.
I got married april 17 2010,my husband is in warri delta state and am waiting to get redeployed to one of our branches in benin or asaba to enable me get close to him.
In as much as i dont want to be jobless,i deeply know that theres something great out there for me.
Im very passionate in SALES,In helping people become better people ,creating awareness and i hate injustice,i equally love the right things to be done,either at work or in our everyday lives.
when i was younger,i dreamt of being a broadcaster,presenter,lawyer an accountant(because of power so i will be a top manager in the bank) I equally dreamt of holding power either at state or federal level.
Now this morning at 10:25 am i am trying to reposition my self,my tots and look critically into my dream.
I know wisdom is a deep understanding.(a special understanding of things and people around u)thats what i need at this moment from God.i want to have the eyesight of the eagle.Because i know with out God giving me this wisdom i will continously wander aimlessly.

All am saying is that am confused,i feel a strong passion that am not sure of.

Dear God help me.

Its a choice to be happy.

Today I sat in the office, unable to put myself together, feeling dazed…sad.. Cheated.. in fact most negative tots…yeah I was feeling depressed. Just then I decided to take a brief walk close by. And then i heard an outburst of sincere deep laughter,when i turned it was a group of brick layers in a biulding sight with tattered clothes and heavy dirty basin on top thier heads working and laughing. hmmm... unimaginable humour.

i wondered why they where that happy, with happy glows in thier eyes.

Just then i made a choice to be happy. most especially after comparing my life with thiers.

Psalm 107:1 says "Give thanks to the LORD, for he is good; his love endures forever."

Dear All, your circumstance is not the worst you can find and doesnt warrant bad attitudes.

Its a choice to be happy.

Working in Excellence

Life is not about doing your best,but knowing what to do.When you know what to do,you take control of your environment.According to Thomas Eddison"Genius is 1% inspiration and 99% perspiration".Everyone can achieve thier dreams ,if only we re-position ouselves and work hard.

All our output should speak excellence.Transformation should begin with "ME".
Have you discovered yourself???

It is high time we said No to MEDIOCRITY and YES to EXCELLENCE.
"MEDIOCRITY repells EXCELLENCE attracts"

What is your level of excellence????
Are you consistent????

Rowing harder doesn't help if the boat is headed in the wrong direction.

Proverb 22:28 A consistent man will abound in blessing

Do you know it is insanity to keep doing the same thing and expect results???Try something new with an excellent mind frame and be consistent.

Dear all pull the string and it will follow where ever you wish,the world is in your hand.Take charge.